[懷孕] 會憂鬱...(抱怨文不喜勿入)
想抱怨一下我的婆婆
我的婆婆她沒有對我不好
她其實給我很大的空間
但或許是我懷孕玻璃心吧!
每次都因為她的一句無心的話
我都會很難過
因為這樣常和老公吵架
事情是這樣的
今天已經40W了
但一點產兆都沒有
本來想要工作到生
但娘家和老公都希望我可以提早休假
於是我這星期一39W+5開始休假
但我婆婆並不知道我已經開始休產假了
每天我和老公上班後她就會上樓巡視一下(她住樓下)
星期一她上樓時我正在洗手間
客廳的燈和電扇都沒關
她可能有點嚇到
但她確認是我休假在洗手間她就下樓去了
所以我也沒機會跟她多說什麼
我請老公晚上跟他媽媽說一聲我已經開始休假了
但我老公他忘記跟他媽媽說了
就在今天我婆婆又上樓了
一見到我就說妳怎麼"又"休假了?
就因為這一句話我難過的躲在棉被裡偷哭
我老公說她是在關心我
但我覺得如果真的關心不是應該要我提早休假嗎?
但她從來沒關心過我挺著大肚子上班辛不辛苦累不累?
反而是在我都已經40W了請假在家待產的時候說怎麼"又"休假?
難不成預產期都到了我還是要去上班?
這樣的情形已經不是第ㄧ次了
我們去採買小寶寶的東西她就會說"小孩都還沒生就買一堆"聽了我好難過
我媽媽幫我準備水果她就會說"那吃了太冷太寒不好"
(她最近最常幫我準備的水果竟是"西瓜")
我好擔心坐完月子後的那一個月
我要自己一個人在家帶小孩
婆婆是不是又會跟我說一些讓我難過的話
已經跟老公溝通好幾次了
但都無效.....
我好怕我會因此有憂鬱症
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