[懷孕] 玻璃心,請問我的身材干你什麼事!
這是篇…抱怨文。
在懷孕過程中,其實自己的情緒起伏還蠻大的。自己在懷孕前就蠻在乎自己的身形體重,懷孕前160公分52公斤,雖然還是肉肉的,但還在自己容忍的範圍內XD。
最受不了的是,有時候男同事會自以為幽默的開孕婦玩笑。
有一次是說,你跟你老公有沒有去拍孕婦寫真啊!跟你老公說,懷孕後都會變很胖,幾乎都瘦不回來!要趕快留下紀念啊!
當下我只開朗的回他說:「哈哈哈!大哥,你不用擔心我一定會瘦回來的。」
又有一次,一個公司新進的小屁孩(剛當完兵,這是他的第一份工作),他看到我說:「哇!才一兩個禮拜沒見,剛剛看到你的背影,我都認不出你了耶!怎麼變得那麼…胖」,因為主管在旁邊,我只回他說:「你真的很賤耶!」。但心裡O.S 「我有跟你很熟嗎?才認識一兩個月,可以讓你對我的身材說三道四了」
回家後,老公在載我的路途中,我就突然崩潰大哭老公嚇個半死,跟他娓娓道來後,他默默說,下次有這種人您就回他:「我老婆懷孕,我愛他就好,干你們其他人什麼事!」,雖然是安慰的話,但心情就平復了許多:'-(
最近懷孕36週了體重也飆增快20公斤(掩面,我承認我體重控制不了…)
這幾天跟非常要好的一群女生朋友吃飯(已經認識了快十年),其中一位女生朋友(他身高180體重應該一百左右),一見到我就瘋狂的說「哇!你的下盤的超級穩的耶!」這句話真的不誇張吃一頓午餐重複了不下十次,也已經一直告訴他不要再說了這樣讓我覺得很厭煩,再說下去我可能會翻臉,但他還是當作開玩笑一直說,坦白說到後來我臉已經都沉下來了…
我想我難過的點是,我以為是自己要好的朋友不會去說這一種話,坦白說在跟他交朋友的期間我完全不會去批評他的身材,但他似乎不能體諒我很在乎也當場告訴他不要再說,但他還是一直鬼打牆重複的說這一句話…怎麼連自己非常要好的朋友陡都這樣(〒︿〒)
大家能忍受這種狀況嗎?昨天一頓飯下來頓時覺得,開別人的玩笑當有趣,好玩嗎?
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