[寶寶] 幾歲才會讓父母覺得「長大了」?
我家情況
老大男寶/兩歲一個月
老二男寶/五個月
太太幾乎全職帶孩子。
(偶爾有幾天必須工作,工作量已大減)
老大爆炸皮,
一打二讓她常心力交瘁,
而我幫不上忙,是豬隊友,
工作因素常飛,大多4-6週才出現一次,
每次3-6天。
娘家有岳母後援,岳母下班後可以幫忙一起看孩子。
我太太才能好好洗澡吃飯上廁所。
我讓她直接去住娘家。
我想問,
小孩大概在幾歲可以讓人覺得「長大了」?
大寶才兩歲出頭,
小男孩比較好動,
小寶又小,很需要媽媽。
我老婆說她在等老大真正懂事、真正長大的那一天。
大概就是不要吼小孩、不要追小孩、
不用撿飯粒,可以自己自動自發睡覺,
媽媽有空可以做菜小孩不會來亂了,
小孩可以自己看書、畫畫、玩玩具......等等。
請問各位版友經驗,謝謝。
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