[寶寶] 睡前看到婆婆突然爆哭
寶寶3M11D
平常照顧者是我跟媽媽,週末都會帶回婆家給婆婆、爸爸逗弄抱抱。
這週回婆家,婆婆逗弄寶寶或抱著小孩都會笑,
昨天早上想睡的時候,寶寶看到婆婆跟她講話逗弄她的時候,突然爆哭。後來我安撫完後
爸爸接手,之後又抱給婆婆,小孩又馬上大哭,婆婆因此跟著一起哭。
想請問版上的媽媽,會有這種狀況是不是因為寶寶想睡,開始會認人,所以開始找她習慣
的味道?因為寶寶睡醒後,又沒事的跟婆婆玩的很開心。
但也因為如此,婆婆心碎了,覺得寶寶不認得她,覺得她應該辭職幫我帶小孩,想要來跟
我媽媽學帶小孩,覺得自己很慚愧內疚,是因為沒有幫忙顧小孩,小孩才不認得她orz(
其實這3M來,也只有這麼一次爆哭)
婆婆平常就是一個愛胡思亂想的人,也很怕別人批評她,莫名的會給自己壓力,導致自己
晚上睡不著,我知道她也是為了寶寶,因為是她第一個孫子怕寶寶跟她生分,所以有此建
議,但就因為她這樣的個性,我怕如果小孩真的給他帶,她會因為小孩哭、小孩受傷、或
擔心有的沒的,導致自己內疚,或更睡不著,想問問大家應該要怎麼拒絕比較好,而不要
傷到婆婆的玻璃心,麻煩大家了。
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