[寶寶] 「做自己」真的不簡單消失
我一向都蠻從眾的
也很隨和
朋友都會笑我盲從
感覺我沒什麼個性
最近到了要不要懷第二胎的時候
周遭全部勸生
1.隊友很神
2.娘家很罩
3.雙方收入加起來算過得去
4.大寶在公園都很想跟其他小孩玩
但我內心其實想生一個
但不忍老公失望、大寶沒伴
我覺得現在是幸福的高峰
再有一個小孩不見得好
1.本來過得舒服,會變剛好,有時候緊
2.大小寶不見得合得來,長大也是各過各的
3.我沒有信心當一個不偏心的父母
我就是沒辦法排除眾議
我討厭在意別人想法的自己
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很怕傷害小孩
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發文感覺比較像「發洩」
因為大家現實生活也不會有交流
抱歉把大家當心理師了
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我也超怕自己這樣的
本來想生給大寶做伴
反而傷害他
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抱歉、抱歉
因為覺得現實生活中沒有人能理解
如果一直問身邊的人大家會很反感
讓網友反感比較沒關係(大誤)
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現在有點消極
想說拖過大寶上幼稚園應該就不會有人勸生(?)
※ 編輯: jadishcat (118.150.79.55), 04/19/2018 23:47:45
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拍拍
像我姐也是從小照顧我所以她只生一個(泣)
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一直努力跟自己說再生一個
但另一個聲音問自己真的想嗎?(人格分裂?)
※ 編輯: jadishcat (118.150.79.55), 04/19/2018 23:50:13
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