[求助] 女友跟我好友的關係
我知道會變成現在這樣的情況有80%是我造成的
小弟我第一次在這向求助各位
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剛開始跟女友交往時(最近剛滿兩年) 她希望可以融入我的朋友 簡稱A跟B
所以她也會三不五時買些小東西請他們
A收到東西之後有在臉書跟她道謝B則沒有任何回應
她來我宿舍時若遇到也會跟他們打招呼
不過我朋友似乎是沒聽到還是在忙也沒有反應
我女就覺得她在用熱臉貼他們的冷屁股
她認為我朋友好像很不喜歡她
也造成她之後到我這來的時候,在公共空間遇到他們(常常不止AB在場)她也不敢打招呼,就頭低低的走進房間
然而今天晚上我有找A跟B講這事他們的說法是覺得我女友很沒禮貌,來到這裡都不跟他們打招呼就一直躲在房間(我們租整棟有各自房間)
我有告訴他們說我女友會這樣的原因
從A的口氣感覺到他是不排斥我女友 也希望之後可以重新認識
但B還是有一種我女友就是耍大排的這種意念在
我實在不知道怎麼跟他溝通
(A是大學同學 我們目前大三,B是高中同學從高中就是同一掛的)
兩邊的感情我都不願意放棄
我知道是我這個中間人做的不好
但誤會也已經造成
有沒有辦法能解決目前這種情況?
至少不要互相有敵意
真的覺得我真差勁讓女友受這委屈
我是想找一天一起出去吃個飯
但是我不知道該講些什麼讓他們可以有話聊
不知道還有沒有其他好辦法?
小弟在此受教
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