[求助] 如何在不傷害對方下拒絕追求者呢?
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我有一個蠻不錯的男性朋友,
以前沒有很熟,
是最近3 4個月才比較要好的
最近因為周遭的人的胡亂撮合
加上他好像對我有好感,
都會對我展開一些行動
像都會來接我下班
(都在我下班前提前來,躲都躲不掉),
邀我一起吃晚餐,
並且總是用很炙熱的眼光看著我
一群人出去玩,眼神卻只看著我講話
總是要走在我旁邊、坐在我旁邊
他本來是很靜態斯文(有點無聊)的人,
也不知道是不是想要迎合我的喜好,
跟著我往外跑,開始學一些幽默的話
但是....我真的不喜歡他
說真的他這樣讓我很有壓力,
甚至有點困擾
我不希望他繼續這樣下去,
不過他也沒有對我做什麼不踰矩的事,他人也很好
我也不想傷害他
他也沒跟我告白
所以也沒辦法明明白白拒絕他
真的不知到該怎麼辦
想問各位大大
不知道有沒有能跟他說清楚卻不會傷害到他的方法呢??
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