[討論] 想交女朋友,是否要學會用LINE聊天?
嗯…這篇有在女版發過,不過想想應該發在男女版比較適合
我跟女生聊天的時候並不會緊張,聊天的氣氛也都蠻活絡
但我沒有用賴或是聊天軟體跟女生聊天過,通常要聊都是因為有正事要討論,諸如營隊社團事務
因為我自己是覺得沒事密女生聊天有點奇怪,要我找理由密也想不太到。。。
看我週遭死會的朋友,幾乎都跟他們死會的對象在死會前用賴長聊好一陣子
想問問我是否也該試著主動用聊天軟體,去跟彼此還算熟,又讓我產生好感的女孩呢?
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靠 被發現了... 我的常見度比起版主跟一些元老應該算少吧XD 也就這年度考試到放榜
這期間常出現
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其實我的癥結點在於......不知道要主動密女生要以甚麼話題去密
因為不論以甚麼話題,我一直覺得我主動密女孩,會有種太刻意的感覺
而平常的偶遇,見到面很自然的會打聲招呼,然後就湊在一起稍微聊起天來,比較沒有
那種我自己覺得的刻意
但後來想想,也許我這樣的想法也會害我失去很多機會。的確在平常聊天方面我能適應
的還可以,但說實在往後彼此見面也就可能是校園偶遇而已,畢竟我們共事的日子已經過
去了
沒有太頻繁的聯繫,大概也擦不出甚麼火花
至於烏頭殼,我的確有在那玩過。但那種感覺又不太一樣了,陌生人聊起天來沒有甚麼包
袱。最近也有在跟一個聊,已經聊一個月還沒斷,但就是一直沒有要彼此的聯絡方式(感
覺這方面我們都還蠻有默契的......)
※ 編輯: maroondragon (1.164.137.18), 08/13/2016 19:33:56
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這也是我在糾結的一點。因為用通訊軟體聊,我沒辦法看到對方的表情,很難去琢磨我說
的話帶給對方的感覺是甚麼......
※ 編輯: maroondragon (1.164.137.18), 08/13/2016 19:35:24
※ 編輯: maroondragon (36.224.214.188), 08/13/2016 20:44:51
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大部分是,因為我在學校跟朋友見面的頻率還算高,大多都是同一個圈子的人
而且在宿舍也會彼此串門子,用通訊軟體聊天的次數是蠻少的
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