聖誕快樂 :)
上個月跟朋友唱歌,認識了一個男生.我真的超級超級喜歡他,一見鐘情!!!!!!!!
互相都有好感. 彼此互動一個多月後, 在最後一次見面(第六次),
我問他說 "我們現在是怎樣?在一起嗎?"
他說 "我好好想一下再跟妳說"
然後就人間蒸發兩週了 ...
對於他消失原因, 我還是百思不得其解!
所以最近一直在想, 到底是哪次見面,我哪個環節沒有處理好呢Q_Q?
以下為簡單的互動情況:
第一次:多人唱歌+吃飯
第二次:吃飯,飯後聊天,他說他喜歡我,我也說我喜歡他,接吻告別
第三次:看電影+吃飯+wego+他說他愛我
第四次:吃飯+看電影+motel
第五次:吃飯+幫他慶生
第六次:吃飯+motel(*然後就是這次最後一次見面*)
這次,他送我回家的車上,在討論下次見面要去哪裡玩~他提議去泡溫泉,
我覺得這活動很像情侶做的事.所以我就索性問他,"我們現在是怎樣?在一起嗎?"
他說"我好好想一下再跟妳說"
因為我們工作都很忙,平常沒什麼閒聊,
所以每次見面時間都很珍惜,
彼此都不會拿手機出來玩(這真的超加分~)
都很享受這相處的快樂, 這絕對是裝不出來的 Q_Q!!!!
所以我怎麼想都不知道為何他會消失呢 ?不過大概有兩點推測 ...
1) 他現在不想有女朋友,所以當我想確認關係時, 他就消失了
2) 他從頭到尾只想xx, 所以當我想確認關係時, 他就消失了
3) ?
如果是1or2 ,那要約會幾次再發生關係會比較合適呢 ?
或是有什麼觀察的指標 ? 或是該問的關鍵問題 ?
才可以過濾掉只想%%不想負責的男生~ Q_Q
以上,
覺得很過分但又覺得打電話找他很糗的30歲魯姊 留
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