Re: [心情] 媽媽打來說家裡很空……
原文恕刪,幫朋友代po
以下為朋友的想法
有發現你常常受制於別人而決定事情嗎?
老公那邊催,所以結婚。
想效仿大姨,娘家商議後決定結婚。(雖然我不明白,結婚跟奉養父母、照顧原生家庭有何衝突)
自己的人生,怎麼不是思考過後在下判斷? 知道家裡都女孩時,在挑選另一半時不就應該先想過,只求一個互相理解與體諒,大家都是人生父母養,沒有結婚就像買斷一樣。
你先生對你的想法有表達反對嗎? 不準回家、不準拿錢? 沒有的話何必作繭自縛。 就算有,難道你也認同所以不反抗、不溝通? 以後的路還很長,會感到壓力不止這一樁,事事都要委屈求全然後又不甘心,只告訴自己這就是身為女人的悲哀?
我家也都是女生,但每個年齡有每個年齡的想法跟課題,我跟妹妹也曾衝突過,但是我後來有認清,我大她的歲數而獲得的成長體悟不能拿來當成要求她的標準,這對她是很不公平的。
你是姐姐,那你不是應該以身作則,讓妹妹們知道結婚,是共組小家庭,然後一起孝順雙方父母,一起照顧分擔。而不是拿你的委屈求全來要求妹妹們擔起你年輕時沒做到的事情,不覺得很不合理嗎?
唉… 不知怎麼看完有點火…
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