[難過] 有顏面傷殘 長期隱居在家的家人消失
想問各位
如果你有一位好手好腳,智力正常,但有顏面傷殘(例如:異位性皮膚炎or燒燙傷、顏面失調等...)的家人隱居在家會有什麼想法?
我正好有這樣一位家人,當事者已經快25歲,不要說上大學或出門工作,連出門買東西都不願意
不僅如此,還每月向父母要錢(月花2~4萬),說是要買書&購買一些讓自己心情愉悅的東西
父母之所以對她予取予求主因是被她曾拿刀自殘過的經驗嚇到,希望能以這些零用錢讓她做一些自己有興趣的事情,好好的活著
然而當事者性格卻非常頑劣,擺出"變成這樣又不是我的錯,憑什麼要我以這副德性出門面對人群受辱"的態度
把父母的付出當作理所當然,處處使喚年邁的父母
甚至還說出"要不是因為這樣貌,我早就去當模特兒了"這樣的話
令人非常火大
剛開始隱居前幾年,父母還有帶她去看精神科&接受心理諮商
但完全沒效,她不願意改變心態&認為外貌有傷殘就會不幸的想法已經根深蒂固
甚至關家裡久了,看很多電影&時尚雜誌,還幻想自己是模特兒(反正現實已經亂七八糟)
每次看到年邁父母被她折騰成那樣就覺得心疼,但也無法拿她怎麼樣
畢竟父母就是不希望她自殺,才費盡心思滿足她
但父母也會有離開的一天,這樣以後她要怎麼辦? 只能看這個家被她毀掉嗎?
真是滿滿的無奈...
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