[心情]娘家的消滅--我和姑姑們的談話已回收
大家晚安,平安喜樂
今日我的阿公出殯,追思後和家人們把阿公的骨灰送進墓園了,同時思考著人生方向的哲學,回想故老人家曾勸勉我們的談話
之後回老家和親戚們一起吃飯談談故人以往的事情,這種經驗實在彌足珍貴
不過吃完飯後我和幾個姑姑的談話讓我感到有點難過,但也無法否認的事實…
簡要來說就是姑姑們對我說,十幾年前阿嬤去世,她們還是有個凝聚力每年會回老家團聚,因為有阿公在,現在阿公去世了,結束了,沒有娘家了,以後老家房子是妳爸爸的,我們在這邊開始是外客了,妹妹妳們要好好整理老家喔...
身為長孫女的我聽了很難過,我說老家內妳們的房間還是屬於公共空間的,歡迎回來住,但她們都開玩笑說是否睡幾晚要繳交租金? (我爸和她們感情都不錯)
因為兩老的凋零,對於姑姑們也宣告了娘家概念的結束和消滅,我媽是大嫂,同時姑姑她們也身為各方夫家的大嫂,我想或許她們自己本身也已成為娘家的代名詞了也說不定
大家怎麼看? 娘家的消滅
妳們是否也碰過家族親戚談論到這點?
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