[問題] 這種情況該怎麼拒絕女生消失
Hi,大家好,第一次到這個版發文,原po男的,事情是這樣的...
我跟這個女生認識不久,中間見過3次面,因為背景相近的關係還滿聊得來的,
第一次見面的時候應該算稍微有點好感,但也沒甚麼特別的想法,
聊天感覺也是像正常朋友那樣,見到面的時候也沒有甚麼曖昧的動作,
但她後來實在是主動的有點誇張,有點嚇到我,
傳line都是秒讀秒回,有一天快下班時像閒聊那樣問她一句妳晚餐吃甚麼給我參考一下,
她好像回還沒想到吧,然後我到家看line她後來居然又傳說她在出發到我家捷運站的路上
要跟我一起晚餐(之前有聊到大概住哪站附近),後來我說我吃飽了拒絕了= =
其他諸如約看電影、還有說要叫我起床、想看我運動甚麼的,
之前平常如果聊到瑣事的時候我是會正常回,感覺不太對的時候會隔很久才已讀,
但最近幾天頻率有點變高覺得不是辦法,又不想轉變太大的感覺,
老實說我覺得對方是個很單純的女生,之所以會認識也是有點類似聯誼的狀況,
也就是說對方也知道我現在是一個單身而且想交女友的狀態,
但我是覺得當朋友不錯但沒有可以發展進一步關係的感覺,
也主要是因為之前女友在一起近7年,這中間幾乎沒跟其他新的異性有太多相處,
所以感覺拿捏不太好雙方的距離,很想直接冷處理但又怕傷到人,
想來這裡問問女生的意見,該直接冷處理嗎? 或是有甚麼比較好的說法?
謝謝各位。
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