[問題] 該如何勸媽媽不要借錢消失
如題
小妹弟小時候家境還算可以
閒錢也有個一千萬左右
但這十幾年來
媽媽不斷借錢給娘家及她弟弟做生意
想當然我舅舅生意做得也不怎麼樣
最後也收了
但我媽媽還是持續的資助我舅舅
凡舉第二春的事業便當店甚至是生活起居
我們家的錢幾乎都被媽媽拿去資助她娘家那邊了
家裡沒錢之後
媽媽開始拿標會的錢去資助她娘家
搞到後來沒人要讓她跟會
她便開始向公司同事借錢
直到我姑姑向我媽同事警告才沒人敢再借她錢
但此後我媽便開始向我表哥
甚至是剛出社會的我借錢
說是我舅舅急需
馬上就會還
想當然都是有去無回
現在我們家已經欠債600萬了
房子祖產土地幾乎都拿去貸款了
我爸又是那種有事自己悶著的那種人
真怕哪一天他他突然倒下
我試著想跟我媽溝通
但卻不知道怎麼跟她開口
我覺得好聲好氣跟她說
她都會不當一回事
認為我們家還有本錢
甚至認為他兒子,也就是小弟我很行
但我只是個公務員
根本沒辦法負擔那麼多
想用認真嚴厲的態度跟她說
但我又怕媽媽承受不住
ps:我覺得她自己壓力也很大,這幾年身體狀況也沒那麼好,加上我覺得她變的神經兮兮
......
我真的不知道該怎麼辦
我兩個舅舅也都四十幾了
卻還是一直這樣
別說以後買房養小孩養父母了
我現在已經連交女朋友都不敢想了
想問一下各位大哥大姐
我該怎麼做才能讓媽媽知道事態的嚴重性
讓她知道我們家已經負債
讓她不再亂借錢
謝謝各位大大了
真的拜託大家了
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※ 編輯: Pigletpiglet (111.83.202.12), 05/16/2017 23:18:22
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