[難過] 想搬出去住媽媽反應超大已刪文
先說一下背景好惹,我家是單親,媽媽獨立撫養小孩長大。
大學畢業後我從台北回到新竹準備國考,因為家裡空間不大,弟弟妹妹也都大了需要自己的房間,國考生脾氣又很陰晴不定(哈),於是雖然回到新竹但不是住在家裡,而是租同一棟公寓的小套房,平常可以回家吃飯看電視之類的。
有幸國考人生一年就結束了,在科學園區找到工作,也就這樣竹北-園區通勤了一年多,最近開始有點受不了每天耗費大量的時間在塞車上,和也在園區工作的朋友開始找園區附近的分租。
沒想到和我媽提到要搬出去這件事時,她反應非常大,一副就是我搬去新竹市就是要和她斷絕關係一般,要我把她給我的家具和東西都丟了反正我也不需要;要我把我電話費、網路費的帳單都改成自己的名字(雖然都掛在她名下但我都有付);要把存孝親費的本子和印章都還我說她不需要我的錢;只求我在結婚以前逢年過節還要回老家即可;當作我已嫁人之類的。
並一再強調她沒有生氣,理性溝通。
雖然我早就預料到她多少有點反彈,但沒想到這麼劇烈。我只是從竹北搬到園區,怎麼說的好像再也不回家了一樣QQ
我已經快26了(嗚),搬出去自己住應該沒有那麼嚴重吧?被媽媽這樣line了一晚上,都不禁開始有點懷疑自己了。
怎麼以前求學住在台北的時候就沒這問題......。
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不要這樣XD
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媽媽最近有加入登山社,感覺生活有變豐富了,但是還是很容易被家裡三個小屁孩影響情緒。
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對,就是一下子爆發出很多傷人的話Q
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f大的留言惠我良多嗚嗚
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