在一起前的價值觀確認:對未來買房子要買在那?
我是新竹縣人,但在新竹市工作!我租房子,上班五分鐘
他是竹南人,也在新竹市工作,他每天開高速公路20分鐘
我希望我們可以買房子在新竹市,對於兩邊的家是中心點
但他卻回我說,結婚就是男生要住哪,女生就是跟到哪啊
為什麼妳還有想住哪就住哪...我同事都balabala....
一開始我真的很無法理解,為什麼一定是結婚之後要去男生那,取個平衡也很ok啊!
後來深聊他才說,因為爸爸已經不在了,剩下媽媽,所以他覺得要在家或家附近照顧媽媽!
但姐姐其實就也嫁到附近而已,我說那姐姐也常常回來啊!三兩天就都回來,但他說姐姐是嫁出去的,誰也不知道以後會怎樣!不要把她牽扯進來?但都同一個媽媽為什麼不能一起照顧我不懂!
而且我們家只有我跟姐姐,姐姐已經嫁了,我也覺得我需要住附近照顧我爸媽啊!
但他的意思是說,他的媽媽只有一個人,我爸媽至少都還在可以互相照顧,不一樣!
不知道妳們會因為這樣,結婚之後要去到男生那邊嗎?
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