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今天帶著小孩去探望婆婆
婆婆 : 等你大嫂生小孩的時候我要搬去跟你們住
老公 : 為什麼要來跟我們住
婆婆 : 不然沒人準備三餐給我吃
老公 : 叫哥買就好了
婆婆 : 你哥每天都那麼晚回來會讓我餓肚子
不然你要搬來這裡跟我住一個月
(沉沒片刻)
婆婆 : 沒啦!我是這樣說啦!你隨便聽聽就好
我是不知道為什麼婆婆要這樣講
我老公也是明顯的不願意
因為婆婆行動不方便
我們居住的地方又是舊公寓沒有電梯
而且之前同住時有明顯的不合問題
搞到後來雖然也是不曾爭吵
但是可以整整1個月多不到5句話
見面時都當對方是隱形人
雖然是這樣
但是搬出來住之後我只要有空也是會帶小孩去探望婆婆
平均每個月會去3次以上
雖然婆媳不和但畢竟他也是小孩的奶奶
很擔心萬一婆婆真的要搬來跟我們住我的好日子就沒了
因為她是那種會干涉媳婦管教小孩的婆婆
而且不管對錯都會為了反對而反對的人
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大嫂是要回南部娘家給媽媽做月子,大哥住北部
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我大嫂目前不會可憐阿,我們雖沒同住但是分工都很清楚
生完小孩後才是大嫂真正考驗的時候
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我也是覺得老公回去住沒差,只是他要比較辛苦一點來回跑
畢竟我們沒有住再同一個區塊,一趟路大約要半小時,加上上班時間就要一小時了
※ 編輯: hsiuyu 來自: 182.235.180.110 (06/10 23:36)
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我先生是很孝順,甚至到了愚孝的程度,如果是他搬去一個月我當然是沒問題
萬一是婆婆搬過來住就有點麻煩
畢竟有很多該準備的東西,安全上的問題,家裡的擺設也要全部重新規劃
更怕他會跌倒
※ 編輯: hsiuyu 來自: 182.235.180.110 (06/10 23:53)
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先生有主動問阿
在一開始得知大嫂懷孕就問了
上個月又問了一次
是婆婆自己說時間還沒到不用煩惱
直到昨天又去探望婆婆他才這樣說的
老公是不希望婆婆來我家住,不是他不願意去住大嫂家
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你說的有點嚴重了
先生的工作是做夜班的時間又長
小孩每天只有要上學時才有見到爸爸
所以我才說去住一個月沒有太大影響
而且我們假日都會去探望婆婆
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