[求助] 婚前婆婆爆炸
下個月要結婚了,
結果這週爆發一件出乎意料的紛爭。
男友是台北人,來南部工作,
也因此認識而交往、論及婚嫁。
當初為遷就男友工作地緣等等因素,
兩家決定不受限宴客名義,
反正結婚在高雄先請,台北另外補請。
我們家唯一要求只有要回部落殺豬,
概念有點類似漢人發喜餅的概念。
長輩們看重殺豬這件事,
所以早早就跟男友提過,提親時也提過,
當時男友媽媽也答應,認為沒什麼問題。
之前也禮貌上問過男友爸媽是否打算來參加,
但他們大概覺得專程南下很麻煩,也表明沒意願參加。
殊不知昨天殺完豬,男友媽媽就爆炸了,
覺得女方故意將歸寧提早辦,是要給男方難看。
不過原住民沒有歸寧呀,這兩個是不同概念呀orz
我和男友,還有我爸媽都以為提親的時候已經表達很清楚了;之後再跟男友媽媽提,她也沒特別表示什麼,也沒說歸寧訂婚之類的話,不知道為什麼現在才說。
況且親戚到你家殺豬、分肉,中午不可能不請親戚吃飯,原住民親戚多,隨便來有個7.80人也是常有的事。
結果男友媽一直說她以為只有殺豬,不知道要請親戚吃飯,搞得好像我們女方故意陰她一樣 orz
現在男友覺得傻眼,我也傻眼,
都不知道怎麼辦好。
我在想打電話過去,讓她罵一罵?
畢竟她一定知道我男友會跟我說她在生氣的事,她應該是在氣我和我爸媽。
如果我沒做點什麼,她是否會更認定我不尊重她呢?
本來希望和婆婆好好相處的,看來是無望了。
其實幾個月前,男友媽就常常叨念男友是不是要入贅我們家,覺得兒子要被拐跑了。
當時我聽聽只覺得是爸媽捨不得小孩,抱怨幾句,反正我爸也常酸我胳膊往,但也就是嘴上說說。
殊不知殊不知,昨天男友媽媽好像真的很生氣,氣到哭之類的(因為男友也不在台北家中,都是他妹電話轉述)
我覺得整件事的錯誤就是當初不該偷懶,
咬牙遠端操控,在台北把婚結了,省得男友媽有這些誤會。
到底該怎麼辦呀?
我也不敢讓我爸媽知道………
真的要在結婚前一天爆炸了啦gg
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