[心情] 覺得疲憊
是否同意記者抄文:NO
先說我們住婆家,但是分成樓上樓下,平常家事我都會做。
前陣子帶小孩出國五天,婆婆也跟朋友去大陸玩,剛好行程錯過(我們回來她出國),回
國到家時發現房間所有床單被單枕頭套都被拿去洗,小孩要睡覺一直歡歡,裝完床單還找
不到小孩枕頭抱枕.....
所以之前跟婆婆溝通過,我們知道她一片好意,但是我們長大了可以清潔自己房間,她也
可以專心準備出國事務,或是自己多休息(婆婆參加很多社團很忙)
這次四天連假的最後兩天回娘家,正當我們要結束行程,婆婆又跟老公說幫我們洗好床單
,老公還是一樣回她,我們可以自己來,讓她多休息。
回去的時候發現床單已經被風吹到地板,小孩床單甚至沾到狗尿......然後回房間看,平
常給小孩玩的小盒子也被丟掉了。
我知道這是婆婆一番好意,可是我真的很困擾,不管在溝通上,還是其他事情上,我都覺
得好累好累。
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不是床單有沒有乾的問題,是出國回來無法立刻休息。婆婆好意拿去洗,要求她再幫我們
裝回去就太過了。
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我出國前兩天已經洗過了,婆婆好像不知道,又全部拿去洗。有備用床單,只是洗完很快
就乾,就直接拿來裝上,沒有特別換其他床單。
小孩床單沾到狗尿(狗狗有生病),我不知道該留還是該丟,雖然已經重洗,想到小孩在
上面滾來滾去我心裡就過不去。
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剛結婚的時候,婆婆也會幫我們洗衣服,但是是那種老公臭襪子跟我的內褲一起洗,我就
跟她說我洗衣習慣比較不一樣,我自己來洗,一個禮拜兩三次,小孩衣服用手洗。
婆婆是趁我們不在,進來房間直接拆床單被單,再叫我們自己去收。
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唉,鎖門她可能會發飆......
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隊友已說無數次,依然無效。
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婆婆參加很多社團,合唱團同濟會教會等等,平常真的很忙,也常常說她事情很多,所以
才跟她說我們自己來,她就可以多休息。
我不知道婆婆是否需要別人需要她,無法接受孩子長大之類的......
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老公也跟她講過多次
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不,我是洗完澡順便洗內衣褲,白天準備要曬,也被一起拿去洗。
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後來隊友跟婆婆談(我不在場),明說了我的習慣跟婆婆不一樣,希望婆婆不要動我們東
西,婆婆當下表示理解,當初幫我們洗衣服也是很匆忙,被單晾了就走,才沒用夾子夾好
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婆婆已經放軟姿態,我也不能硬要黑,若有下次我會直接鎖門!
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