[懷孕] 全職無後援懷二寶
從大寶六個月後就想懷二寶,到現在大寶10m半終於在昨天驗到清楚兩條線,但認真想想
發現好多問題點希望有媽咪能提供經驗!
婆家嘉義娘家屏東現在住林口,懷二寶又帶大寶怕身體吃不消又無後援,考慮回南部可當
後援,先生假日在回來看我們,但當然最好狀況還是一家人在一起比較好,如果是大家會
怎麼選擇呢?
1.辛苦一點一家人在一起
2.回婆家,爸爸認真賺錢假日再回來
3.回娘家比較自在,爸爸認真賺錢隔週回來
另外,因為現在大寶仍是全親餵寧餓不尿尿也不瓶餵,懷孕後大寶會慢慢吸不到奶嗎?
補充一下:會考慮回南部也是因為目前租的房子約快到了,若回南部先生去住宿舍,會省
下一筆房租,但有媽咪也是再懷孕期間搬家嗎
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目前育嬰無補助了,經濟上不會考慮再支出保母或托嬰了,不然這方法最好了
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其實不論全職非全職,我都當過,兩個都很累但累的點對我來說不太一樣,上班後帶小孩
比較偏向肉體上的勞累,全職對我來說是精神上很緊繃的壓力及疲累,但現在又懷孕感覺
精神壓力越來越大,深怕自己無能若有個萬一大寶誰能照顧。
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懷二寶前我只想到月子可以請月姨,完全遺忘會有身體不適及大寶不受控orz
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※ 編輯: bluecc12 (49.158.45.208), 02/21/2016 10:08:20
我也是怕我脾氣不受控,在婆家可能會積怨成疾吧
※ 編輯: bluecc12 (49.158.45.208), 02/21/2016 10:11:33
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在懷二寶的孕期也是自己帶大寶嗎?我也比較想要一家人在一起,想說前三個月不穩定過
後應該就順了吧?!
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我手殘不知道按到蝦米XD 修掉囉
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謝謝版友們的建議,其實老公想要我回南部有照應我想就像版友講的那樣,對我們來說輕
鬆很多,但我最猶豫的也就是相對來說大寶和老公的感情默契,現在一個禮拜多加個班孩
子就不要爸爸陪了更何況長期遠距離!看完版友經驗和老公聊過後初步決定我們辛苦點咬
個牙孩子就大了,若初期真的不適在看要不回娘家渡假個幾天撐過渡期XD(版友們太強大
了,真的為母則強!)
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