Re: [寶寶] 常抱寶寶真的會寵壞嗎?
寵壞這件事應該是指行為心態上的偏差
做錯事不糾正教導,還幫他合理化
或是自己給予孩子偏差的觀念
或是我家孩子最棒棒
什麼都是對的
永遠錯的都是別人
這才叫寵
孩子才會壞掉
三個多月的寶寶,初來乍到這世界
需要安全感,這是天生的機制
幫助自己活下去的自然演化
為什麼會壞掉?
妳不給他安全感
他的心理世界才會壞掉
一堆本末倒置的真是昏倒
※ 引述《joeseno (joe)》之銘言:
: 請問媽媽們,
: 我寶寶三個多月,
: 因為她是親餵寶寶
: 很喜歡在媽媽的懷裡,
: 特別是睡前一定要抱著,直到熟睡。
: 我不太常讓她哭,通常她哭我都盡可能的安撫她。
: 但是常有人跟我說,我這樣會寵壞她,要讓她哭個10-15分再抱,或等她不哭再抱
: 這個方法我試過幾次,但她還沒哭到時間到,都已經哭都岔氣,臉漲紅到不行。
: 看了捨不得又抱起來,立刻不哭,一直在我懷裡磨擦臉。
: 常有人跟我說,這樣是寵壞她,以後都會用哭來得到她要的。
: 有沒有媽媽寶寶也是愛抱抱,卻不像人家說的長大這麼有心計,反而體貼的小孩。
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