Re: [抱怨] 最後真的搞砸了
稍微講講看完你這連載的看法吧......
站在學妹的角度來看,如果我今天遇到一個男生
原本覺得還可以聊看看觀察一下
結果當我身體不舒服而且之後還要準備期末考的時期
對方反應不是關心我或是想辦法幫我緩解不舒服的症狀,而是跑到網路平台上公審跟情勒
,抱怨為什麼不回我但是可以看限動之類的。
一直盧學妹說想去女生宿舍送東西那邊也是,你只是想把自己覺得對她好的方式按在她身
上,卻沒想過她是不是真的需要你這樣做。
身體不舒服時可能只想躺在床上滑個手機小瞇一下,結果你一直說要去宿舍找她,等於是
變相逼她見面,站在學妹的角度估計會覺得壓力山大。
https://i.imgur.com/9vEdFb8.jpg
然後當女生真的有需要、求助能不能帶我去看醫生的時候,對方卻突然情緒失控開始暴走
大罵笨蛋......
真的是求求你放過學妹也放過自己吧。
另外你的表面文字看起來很自卑但實際上完全是自我中心思考。
遇到事情沒有得到你想要的回應就會開始放大解讀然後傳訊息,或是一直要跟對方見面談
一談,在你看來是溝通,但在對方的角度來看可能只是純粹的逼迫與情緒勒索。
說真的,趁現在還是學生時,好好善用學校資源去諮商吧,不然也只是一再發生同樣的問
題而已。
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呃......所以你覺得對方說不要但心裡是想要的嗎
誰給你這種觀念的?土裡挖出來的上世紀霸總小說嗎
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