[求助] 男友是不是想悔婚...
和男友在一起五年了
前陣子男友說明年結婚好了
心想終於輪到我了也感到很開心
訂好提親日子
雙方家長歡喜的吃了頓飯
礙於我明年29歲所以訂結都需在農曆年前
看了訂婚今年11月底
結婚明年1月的日子
雖然覺得有點趕
但男友沒說話我想說他OK我也沒表達甚麼
一個禮拜過去
有天男友問我:想把婚期延後一年(也就是2017.3我29後)
結果爸媽一致認為這樣延後太久不答應
回覆男友後
原本一個開朗多話的人突然變的話少冷淡
雖然訊息會回應但多半貼圖及語助詞
我知道他為這事困擾著
於是放假兩天想找他讓他開心
沒想到他說:暫時別來找我讓我冷靜一下
頓時感到晴天霹靂
這是第一次覺得我們的感情出現裂痕
已持續快一個禮拜了
完全不懂男友想甚麼
完全不知道該怎麼辦
大家可以給我一點意見嗎
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謝謝大家的回應
不好意思沒有說明清楚
是因為男友覺得日期太趕
工作最近較忙沒時間準備
我也解釋只需配合拍婚紗挑西裝
但他還是無法釋懷
還說給他時間靜靜調適一下
※ 編輯: chickenyo (115.165.208.89), 05/10/2015 12:01:02
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謝謝大家的建議
也許我應該先想想男友感受
我也想跟他溝通
但他目前還不想跟我見面
他說要先等他媽媽去日本玩五天回來討論
再告訴我下一步到底該怎麼做
※ 編輯: chickenyo (115.165.208.89), 05/10/2015 21:05:48
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