[求助] 跟女友因為人生規劃而爭吵消失
各位好
我跟女友今年皆是25歲
小弟家裡算是大家庭,觀念比較傳統
家中在嘉義經營事業收入還不錯
而女友家在新北是獨生女
小弟目前在等當兵中,預計將來會接手家中事業
女友今年四大財金所畢業,預計想要在銀行業工作
我們兩個雖人時常吵吵鬧鬧但總歸來說感情還算不錯
爸媽也時常邀請他來家裡坐坐讓他了解我家的情況
女友來過幾次後覺得壓力很大
因為我爸媽總是會透露初希望女生結婚後能來我家幫忙
而女友也很不習慣大家庭的生活模式
這次農曆年女友來訪完之後
很嚴肅的跟我討論他希望她將來能留在金融圈工作
並且希望能夠留在台北工作畢竟發展會比較好
雖然我爸媽願意提供他同等的薪水,但女友覺得都讀到碩士畢業想自己闖闖
交往前雖然就討論過這些問題,那時女友也信誓旦旦可以和我一起回南部
但找工作後就發現不太可能去南部,女友認為如果將來目標不同或許早點分手比較好
但我們目前都算還很喜歡對方,不知道各位能否給些建議?很難過也不知道怎麼辦
是該分手還是走一步算一步?
謝謝各位!
補充
我當然支持女友自己找工作也希望他能有好工作
我也不贊成他來我家幫忙,覺得讀這麼高的確該好好外面闖闖
而我學歷還行,原本預計上台北工作,但爸媽年紀大了身體不是很好,因此改變想在家幫
忙
我是家中獨子,所以只有我會接,我不接等於跟家裡決裂,不希望跟家人變成這樣
目前遠距離不是問題,我們也一直都是這樣
重點是可能將來結婚之後,如果還是遠距離會很辛苦
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