[心情] 又吵架了...
提親完~就開始準備婚事
雙方家長的共識是不收禮(不想欠人情、只請至親好友、簡單辦約30桌)
所以一切從簡,聘金不用、訂結同天、
喜宴扣除一些一定會包禮金的社團,剩下的都我(新郎)出
因為已經33歲~所以所有費用我都盡量自己準備
沒跟家裡要錢(家裡可能也沒辦法~我也不希望他們再去找錢...)
所以我媽就拿她收藏多年的金子,叫我去賣掉,然後買金飾給新娘
喜宴找到的地方還不錯~價格也控制在範圍內
但最近常常發生爭吵
爭吵點在未婚妻希望 新密、婚攝、婚錄、主持人
價格實在差異太大...
不含喜宴、我準備了25萬給她
希望能包含喜餅、婚紗、對戒
及其他喜帖、小物、新密、婚攝、婚錄、主持人...等雜支
結果預算下來光 新密、婚攝、婚錄、主持人 加起來就 9萬多
我有一點嚇到(我本來打算攝影跟主持都朋友幫忙,錄影不用)
但她說上來本版爬文後
大家都推薦不要找朋友
而且要找好一點的(好一點的都蠻貴的...)
現在常常都為了這個在爭吵
我也擔心不給她請好的~以後會遺憾
後來我就說都可以~都沒關係
看她喜歡誰就請誰~我沒有意見了
結果她現在說我都不關心
都不去看她找的人的作品集(動不動就跟我吵架~哪有心情看...)
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剛PO完文就出門跟她吃飯~已和好~謝謝各位~
我要補充幾點網友的問題
老婆她願意出15萬~但希望用在蜜月上
所以她不是都沒出錢
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我老婆澄清說她只是先找板上多人推的
9萬是粗估~實際上可能不會超過啦
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謝謝h大
我老婆說你講到她心裡話...
我的確是有些僥倖心態,想說10月的婚禮~5-6月再來找就好了
而且新密我又不懂~所以就都讓她自己找了
我以後會改進
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