Re: [討論] 如果妳是正妹 妳會希望被盯著看嗎?
→ summeruse:不懂耶,到底為什麼要否定"穿好看給自己開心" 02/21 00:07
→ summeruse:別人欣賞自己 自己也開心 我自己喜歡我自己我也開心 OK? 02/21 00:09
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因為你今天回了很多 儘管都是噓文 儘管大部分都在罵我 it's OK
我只是很想就你這兩個問題 好好寫成一篇 也順便回歸我發文的初衷
究竟打扮是為誰?眾說紛紜
很多作家、心理諮商師都會教我們 要愛自己 不要在乎別人的眼光
聽起來很受用
但是.. 誠實面對自己 出門的打扮 難道不是想讓別人覺得自己好看嗎?
或許 我們沒有那麼偉大的情操跟自信
理論是一回事 現實是一回事
就像自信兩個字 很多人會教導 自信是自己給的
但你有看過那些從小就被否定到大的小孩 活得很神采奕奕的?
對不起 我沒看過
我看到的多半是 走向另一個極端 憤世嫉俗
一方面很需要別人的肯定 一方面卻又要倔強地說服自己:做自己就好
這種的扭曲跟掙扎 遠比誠實的缺乏自信 更具毀滅性
關於男人 你可以保有你的浪漫 我無意帶給你一些灰色思想
只是很誠懇地跟你說
當有一天你發現 幽默、體貼、成熟..的背後 居然還是脫離不了精蟲衝腦
這時你就會知道
那種惺惺作態的偽gentle
比癡漢的蠢蠢欲動 更來的作噁千萬倍
好吧 言盡於此
回自己的文章 不是因為自戀 只是想把事情說更明白
我在猜想 你年紀應該還蠻年輕的吧 有些事 早些看透 人生會愉快些
抱歉 說教了
要噓文 繼續囉 我不介意的^^
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