[問題] 個性『嬌』的定義??消失
如題,家人常說我個性很嬌,聽了蠻難過的...但每個人表達情緒的方式本來就都不一樣,想問問看大家認為怎樣的行為叫做嬌?? (不是傲嬌那種)
事件一: 家裡衣服我負責,自從弟弟堅持自己的衣服要跟我們分開洗後,我覺得多了一次工,就不是很想理他幾乎讓他自己洗,但還是會幫他摺衣服。他覺得洗衣服是我的工作,所以洗完都會叫我去曬。問題來了,我上晚班下班都累了,加上他口氣不好,((命令式,xxx去曬衣服不要裝死)) 根本不想幫他弄阿!! 然後他就會告訴我媽,換成我媽叫我去做= = 我還是有做但就不開心也不想講話,我媽就說我又是哪根筋不對...
其實我生氣的點在: 1.他的口氣,我又不是他小弟!! 但家人覺得沒什麼很一般... 2.他自己訂個週休二日不洗碗的規定(洗碗他負責),我媽就會撿起來做,憑什麼他的要求我就要照單全收?!
事件二: 只要無法溝通,我就會選擇沉默不說話、誰都不搭理,聽過一種說法這叫『妄斷』(台語)? 因為之前的經驗,說再多都是頂嘴、歪理,但我真的不開心阿!! 就是不想跟任何人說話...這種狀況通常會持續幾天,之後就好了。有次他們爆氣了,說對我很失望、我的個性真的超級嬌之類,儘管和好了,到現在聽到這個詞都無法釋懷 :( 剛好昨天我弟又聽到說我很嬌,會被討厭... 那幹嘛還叫我幫他查資料找民宿!! 感覺好人都我在做,事後再來捅我一刀真不是滋味 ?
所以大家認為嬌的定義是? 或者女孩都怎麼表達自己的情緒?
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