[心情] 到底要如何才能讓父母坦然接受?
我不是事主,我只是事主的哥哥。
我妹出櫃了許多年,我也坦了許多年,但坦到現在我已經快失去對長輩的耐心與體諒了。
我不是很理解,我妹不過就是喜歡女生,為何不能大方在親戚前說自己有女朋友?
我不是很理解,我妹不過就是喜歡女生,為何親戚朋友還必須把這件事心照不宣,彷彿是
件見不得人的事一般?
昨天晚上去外婆家吃飯,阿姨們聊起晚輩的交友狀況,當我講出「妹妹跟女朋友現在準備
住我家」時,一句話就像一記重槌,敲碎現場虛偽的默契,當時的尷尬才讓我發覺家人自
以為保護的掩飾,原來正是妹妹這幾年不想回娘家吃飯的原因。
我最不能理解的,是媽媽回程時居然警告我,這幾天如果有親戚朋友問起妹妹的交友狀況
,說不知道就好,免得被大家議論。當時心裡一股無名火忍不住,回口頂了句:「她是妳
女兒,妳怎麼連幫她抬頭挺胸的勇氣都沒有?」
結果這句話講完,車上只剩下我妹忍著眼淚擤鼻涕的聲音,一直到今天我倆都還不曾跟媽
媽說過話。我妹跟我說她討厭回外婆家,問我是不是以後過年都要這樣?
「老實說可能還得過個好些年,但至少我們這次已經逼她們面對現實......」
到底該怎麼做才能幫她?我不知道,我只知道我現在想狠狠賞我媽兩巴掌,然後再賞兩巴
掌而已,至於頂撞長輩這件事,我想我會繼續做下去。
--
的媽: 咳!咳!~你在燒什麼東西阿?
: 我在燒我的青春....
的媽: 喔~是嗎?我倒希望你先把你床底下的黃色書刊燒掉...你覺得如何??
: 不行!!那是我的『生命』!!
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 1.172.107.65
※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/lesbian/M.1424575969.A.606.html
※ 編輯: JedLin (1.172.107.65), 02/22/2015 11:36:03
推
02/22 11:44, , 1F
02/22 11:44, 1F
推
02/22 11:50, , 2F
02/22 11:50, 2F
→
02/22 11:50, , 3F
02/22 11:50, 3F
推
02/22 11:50, , 4F
02/22 11:50, 4F
推
02/22 11:52, , 5F
02/22 11:52, 5F
推
02/22 11:55, , 6F
02/22 11:55, 6F
推
02/22 12:00, , 7F
02/22 12:00, 7F
推
02/22 12:04, , 8F
02/22 12:04, 8F
→
02/22 12:18, , 9F
02/22 12:18, 9F
→
02/22 12:18, , 10F
02/22 12:18, 10F
→
02/22 12:18, , 11F
02/22 12:18, 11F
→
02/22 12:18, , 12F
02/22 12:18, 12F
→
02/22 12:18, , 13F
02/22 12:18, 13F
→
02/22 12:18, , 14F
02/22 12:18, 14F
→
02/22 12:18, , 15F
02/22 12:18, 15F
推
02/22 12:29, , 16F
02/22 12:29, 16F
→
02/22 12:29, , 17F
02/22 12:29, 17F
→
02/22 12:29, , 18F
02/22 12:29, 18F
→
02/22 12:29, , 19F
02/22 12:29, 19F
→
02/22 12:29, , 20F
02/22 12:29, 20F
→
02/22 12:29, , 21F
02/22 12:29, 21F
→
02/22 12:29, , 22F
02/22 12:29, 22F
推
02/22 12:31, , 23F
02/22 12:31, 23F
推
02/22 12:35, , 24F
02/22 12:35, 24F
推
02/22 12:38, , 25F
02/22 12:38, 25F
推
02/22 12:44, , 26F
02/22 12:44, 26F
推
02/22 12:47, , 27F
02/22 12:47, 27F
→
02/22 12:48, , 28F
02/22 12:48, 28F
推
02/22 12:50, , 29F
02/22 12:50, 29F
推
02/22 13:06, , 30F
02/22 13:06, 30F
推
02/22 13:14, , 31F
02/22 13:14, 31F
→
02/22 13:14, , 32F
02/22 13:14, 32F
推
02/22 13:21, , 33F
02/22 13:21, 33F
→
02/22 13:22, , 34F
02/22 13:22, 34F
推
02/22 13:29, , 35F
02/22 13:29, 35F
推
02/22 13:31, , 36F
02/22 13:31, 36F
推
02/22 13:34, , 37F
02/22 13:34, 37F
推
02/22 13:35, , 38F
02/22 13:35, 38F
推
02/22 13:38, , 39F
02/22 13:38, 39F
還有 91 則推文
推
02/22 23:00, , 131F
02/22 23:00, 131F
推
02/22 23:03, , 132F
02/22 23:03, 132F
推
02/22 23:05, , 133F
02/22 23:05, 133F
推
02/22 23:35, , 134F
02/22 23:35, 134F
推
02/22 23:36, , 135F
02/22 23:36, 135F
→
02/22 23:36, , 136F
02/22 23:36, 136F
推
02/22 23:41, , 137F
02/22 23:41, 137F
推
02/22 23:56, , 138F
02/22 23:56, 138F
推
02/23 00:18, , 139F
02/23 00:18, 139F
推
02/23 00:19, , 140F
02/23 00:19, 140F
推
02/23 00:29, , 141F
02/23 00:29, 141F
推
02/23 01:11, , 142F
02/23 01:11, 142F
→
02/23 01:12, , 143F
02/23 01:12, 143F
推
02/23 01:12, , 144F
02/23 01:12, 144F
推
02/23 01:30, , 145F
02/23 01:30, 145F
推
02/23 01:37, , 146F
02/23 01:37, 146F
推
02/23 02:01, , 147F
02/23 02:01, 147F
推
02/23 02:05, , 148F
02/23 02:05, 148F
推
02/23 03:00, , 149F
02/23 03:00, 149F
推
02/23 03:50, , 150F
02/23 03:50, 150F
推
02/23 04:54, , 151F
02/23 04:54, 151F
推
02/23 11:52, , 152F
02/23 11:52, 152F
推
02/23 13:24, , 153F
02/23 13:24, 153F
推
02/23 14:27, , 154F
02/23 14:27, 154F
→
02/23 14:27, , 155F
02/23 14:27, 155F
→
02/23 14:27, , 156F
02/23 14:27, 156F
推
02/23 14:43, , 157F
02/23 14:43, 157F
推
02/23 18:50, , 158F
02/23 18:50, 158F
推
02/23 19:18, , 159F
02/23 19:18, 159F
推
02/23 22:47, , 160F
02/23 22:47, 160F
推
02/24 01:02, , 161F
02/24 01:02, 161F
推
02/24 01:04, , 162F
02/24 01:04, 162F
推
02/24 01:45, , 163F
02/24 01:45, 163F
推
02/25 10:43, , 164F
02/25 10:43, 164F
推
02/28 05:12, , 165F
02/28 05:12, 165F
→
02/28 05:12, , 166F
02/28 05:12, 166F
→
02/28 05:12, , 167F
02/28 05:12, 167F
→
02/28 05:12, , 168F
02/28 05:12, 168F
推
03/05 16:51, , 169F
03/05 16:51, 169F
推
04/12 17:57, , 170F
04/12 17:57, 170F
討論串 (同標題文章)