[求助] 家事做太多?做太少?
我記得在婚前,我老公就對我說,他認為做家事是他「幫忙」老婆做的,
所以簡言之,老婆應該「囊括」所有家事,因為他們家就是這樣的~
結婚後,因為跟公婆住,所以家事的事情也只好認命,但是根據他的說法,
我做的不夠多,因為我沒有概括承受我婆婆做的家事~
可是!我要上班,我婆婆是家庭主婦!
後來,生了孩子搬出來,我一樣在上班,但是回到家之後,小孩幾乎都是我在顧,
顧小孩是一件很累的事情,加上下班之後也很累,也想偷懶,
所以家事的部分我就選擇性的做。例如晚上洗衣服,沒有整理廚房,也沒有掃地,
想說星期假日在和老公分工合作一起完成。
所以每個禮拜他都會掃地和拖地,還有擦餐桌(以上一個星期一次)
偶而去倒垃圾,還會抱怨我為什麼不跟他一起去。
我覺得現在有一個很大的問題:他覺得他做的很多,我都沒有做。
可是我沒做的是他認為要做的,譬如說隨時掃地拖地、擦桌子等。
但是我說「我也有做其他的家事阿!你可不可以聞問一下呢?」
他竟然跟我摔掃把,說我這麼會計較。
是我真的太計較嗎?還是?
我其實是想要他也能主動分擔家事,也能關心我,
而不是回家之後就開始看電視、玩手機、還可以去運動、應酬、偶爾跟小孩玩一下,
假日拖地掃地就覺得自己做很多,
那未免也太簡單了吧~
我不想在小孩面前吵架,我也吵不贏他。
但是我想想個辦法讓他如何能「主動」做家事。
各位朋友,可以給建議嗎?
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