Re: [苦惱] 夾心餅乾
※ 引述《taipi ()》之銘言:
: 對於我媽 我知道她養育我 教育我 但我知道很多想法我和她是有不一樣的
: 但是我不會說她觀念有問題 或是去教育她 因為這樣否定我的過去
: 但她持續著糾結於 “媳婦不回家 所以她很難過” 這件事情上
: 讓我很累 很不想處理她倆之間的關係 因為三不五時就爆發一次
: 她覺得我老婆可以做得更好 更配合
: 對於我老婆 我說不過她 也能理解她的論點與想法
: 但是 我真的感覺不到她對我父母的尊重 經過這件事情後
: 我只感覺到 她厭惡我家人 根本不想跟他們往來
掃墓事情事小,癥結點還是在老婆和你家人的互動上
先不急著去遷就老婆,遷就久了對婚姻關係不會有幫助
你可以先嘗試問她厭惡的原因究竟是什麼
而且,你要表示這個問題的嚴重性,請老婆一定要說出真正的原因
然後再判斷那個原因的合理性
如果真的沒解,而你又是很注重大家庭的人
那這個婚姻可能會造成的辛苦和煩惱,就是你需要去衡量的了
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