[苦惱] 關於生小孩的共識
想問問版上的版友們經驗~
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跟老公在一起10年 去年剛結婚
本來老公沒有生小孩的打算~
但是我跟他說有爸媽的壓力跟我自己想要小孩~所以最後妥協要生 (晚一點再生)
可我已經30歲~不想當高齡產婦><
早點生對女生比較好
但老公覺得再晚個兩年~
老公也不是不喜歡小孩 跟同事的小孩也可以玩起來
不過他事業心比較重 覺得如果有了小孩 也沒時間可以帶
PS.我們雙方經濟無壓力 也沒有房貸 還有爸媽可以帶小孩 薪水也是穩定(公務員)
所以我覺得一切只是他想要暫時逃避小孩這個話題= =
結婚前有討論生小孩的事情 我覺得還好
就算真的我們兩個沒有小孩 我還是會跟老公在一起一輩子 因為很愛彼此
只是時間久了 看到周遭朋友們陸陸續續生小孩~
還是覺得 有個長得像我們兩個的孩子 是很幸福的事情
(我主管老婆本來也是打算不生 但是後來看到親戚小孩很可愛 所以決定要生)
我跟他都不算是有耐心的人~
所以我在想 是不是我想得太簡單 當父母沒這麼容易
就算經濟無虞~還是要有教養小孩的耐心?
因此如果老公沒有共識~我不應該一直逼他@@?
但要怎樣才會讓他有想要小孩的打算呢~~
因為覺得年紀大了 很怕想要小孩卻有了困難
所以想說問問看大家意見 謝謝歐!!!
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