Re: [心情] 婚後覺得好像跟老公都沒有話說
因 為 你 沒 有 自 己 的 人 生 了!
以前, 你們有自己的人生, 可以互相分享求學跟工作,
更何況又是遠距, 就算每天講再多話, 也不過就是一天的2~3小時,
所以你有很多材料可以分享!
(這也是為甚麼有些人婚前遠距交往很久, 就自以為跟對方很合)
現在, 你們住在一起, 你又沒有工作,
所以你的人生現在跟他是重疊的, 你每天過得生活老公都知道,
你也沒有新的材料可以跟他分享,
換言之, 老公每天都在成長(更新), 你只剩下原本的生活,
所以你的世界只剩下小孩可以討論,
小心些, 很快老公就會膩了, 會開始覺得外頭的女孩子都好知性, 可以聊很多,
家裡的怎麼都這麼無趣....
千萬不要看到推文說甚麼結婚久了本來就是會這樣,
話題只剩下小孩, 這是錯的!
很大的原因是因為結婚有小孩後, 大人的人生就停滯了,
不願意進修(or沒時間進修), 再也不願意拿書 or 學東西了,
也開始安於當家庭主婦, 很多的, 自己就再也沒有屬於自己的人生,
接著就是把希望都放在小孩身上了......
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