[閒聊] 請問這樣是我的問題嗎?
我們結婚快一年,有一個4個月小孩,我平日要上班(早八晚五),老婆是家庭主婦
老婆平日工作:
掃房間(約8~10坪),因為我們家是兄弟住一棟、父母住一棟
洗衣服(兩三天)
擠奶
Ps:不用煮飯,因為我們媽都會自己煮,中午、晚上都會過去爸媽那邊吃,晚上我爸媽也
會幫忙顧(約5~8點)
小孩現在也能睡過夜(11、12~7、8點),禮拜五晚上都會過去岳父岳母家住到禮拜日在
去接(也很近)
因為全職的關係,之前幾乎都是他在顧,洗澡是我在洗,偶爾小孩睡前的奶也是我在餵
現在有一個問題點是:小孩我都哄不睡,小孩又是爆哭型,試過很多方法、姿勢,就是沒
辦法,我老婆在哄我也看了很多次,也都去學,就是沒辦法,一定爆哭
所以我的想法是:既然都試這麼多次,聽到他哭成這樣也心疼,就給老婆哄睡,她偶爾也
說好,偶爾又在那邊唸
當然我知道萬一哪天他不在誰要哄,但我試了很多次,老婆也說不出問題點在哪,就是叫
我要一直哄
我們因為這件事有點不愉快,因為小孩我也按耐不住,他又說他想休息,但我覺得他平時
已經算很輕鬆了,不用煮飯、假日又是岳父母帶,而且他會跟朋友出去也是假日,既然我
真的按耐不住小孩,就忍到在大一點,哄睡就交給他來處理
但是他就堅持我一定要練會這個,所以為了這件事有點不開心,因為我是真的試過各種方
式,就是無法,但是他說他這樣很累
但我覺得他跟很多人比起來算很輕鬆了,我這樣要求很過分嗎?
能否給點意見
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謝謝大家意見,剛剛有點不愉快,又不解,所以想問問意見,也可能我們還年輕,有時沒
想的那麼周全,我會在找老婆溝通的!真的很謝謝!
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