Re: [閒聊] 婆婆要來卻臨時變卦
雖然我踏入婚姻版的時間不算很長
但是連續每天看文下來
真覺得在這版只要提到「婆婆」兩字,不管發文抱怨的內容是什麼,都會有人推欸
以本文原po來說
上來抱怨長輩一件雞毛蒜皮且毫無損失的小事
下面竟然也這麼多人推?
如果把「婆婆」替換成自己的媽媽,還會有這麼多囉囉唆唆的抱怨嗎?
我並沒有很矯情地說要把公公婆婆當成自己的親生爸媽
但是至少在細微小事的「感受度」上,是不是至少可以維持差不多的標準?
至少不要太誇張?好像隨時隨地都被摸到逆毛一樣?
更何況原po到底是損失了什麼?
原本就該隨手打掃的房間,平常發發懶當然沒什麼
現在臨時稍微收拾一下是損失了什麼?
又不是推掉出國旅行的行程、丟掉買好的機票在家等婆婆
更何況,認真來說
我覺得原po是應該要開心的(這也是我為什麼會發文的原因)
因為我看婆婆生活的重心在自己,而不是死巴著兒子媳婦孫子
所以才會「閒閒才想到偶爾去探望,如果有自己的事就去做自己的事」
這代表這位長輩有自己的生活好嗎!
難道原po很想婆婆隨時隨地都把兒子孫子放在第一位嗎?充滿執念每天死都要見到?
這樣會造成的困擾更多好嗎,就不是只有上來說爽約這麼簡單了
我覺得原po非常不知足
有一個有自己生活的婆婆、不在乎媳婦出門或去哪的婆婆
在我看來已經是很棒的事情了
原po的抱怨在我看來根本「把婆婆當仇人」在挑剔小事
還記恨咧
上班都能臨時請假
跟朋友聚會也能臨時不想出席
跟老公說好要吃麵也能臨時改成吃燒烤
婆婆就不能臨時想逛街?我真心不懂
我也為人媳婦,跟婆婆相敬如賓並不親
但她若願意來,我會很開心
若是臨時不來,那我也是聳聳肩而已
就是一點毛的小事,也需要上來發文?
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