[閒聊] 回婆家或是婆婆到妳家?消失
我結婚一年半了,房子是公婆出的頭期款,房貸老公付,距離婆家約40分鐘車程,房子在老公認識我的前五年就買了,所以算是老公的婚前財產。
老公跟我交往前,公婆有時會休假去住(所以客房有雙人床,衣櫥也是公婆的衣服,我搬過去以後才整理掉),順便料理三餐給老公吃,幫他打掃(婆婆自己愛做,其實老公自己會掃),老公跟我交往後,公婆就沒來過了。
結婚後,也一直是我們回去婆家,對我來說,雖然沒有很放鬆,但也不會不願意,因為回家後,晚餐差不多都好了,我就負責洗碗及飯後水果。
最近,婆婆說,等我工作忙完,他們想來家裡坐坐(我猜是住個一兩晚吧),雖然公婆人很好,但我還是覺得有壓力,因為公婆很省,他們不想去外面吃飯,一年只有父親節母親節跟生日才會吃外面,我說我還不太會煮,婆婆笑著說,沒關係,慢慢來,慢慢學,媽媽教妳,聽完又更是有壓力。
已經跟老公說好,公婆來之前,他負責刷廁所,整理家裡,我就是晚上煮個一餐吧!
同事說,小心公婆到家裡一次以後,就開始時常假日都來,感覺也不是不可能,畢竟房子算是公婆出了一半,而且在我出現前,那裡也是他們休假會住的地方,我好像沒資格拒絕。
常看到版友不喜歡回婆家,如果是妳們,會寧願回婆家,還是寧願公婆到自己家呢?總覺得在自己家,也沒有當主人的感覺啊…
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