Re: [問題] = =a 非自願單身的
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算了,用打的
舉個例,之前在某單位,跟我差不多時間進去的新人A小姐
在我們服務半年之後變成A太太了,原本我們交情還不錯(差不多時間的新人)
雖然她是只有登記結婚,沒有辦宴客(可能日後會挑日子補辦)
大家都知道她結婚了,因為不宴客,所以也沒發帖,也沒收禮金
我是唯一自掏腰包送她結婚賀禮的同事,我不需要妒嫉或眼紅,純粹是祝福
大概她新婚不久,開始有點"得意忘形",似乎很想幫我"製造機會"
有次她就說:妳大概交的朋友比較少吧,所以比較沒什麼機會認識異性吧
我一聽就冒火,剛認識時,我就告訴過妳我是不婚族了吧
嗆她一句:妳又知道我朋友少了?妳又知道我認識的異性少了?
(本小姐認識的異性是同性3倍以上,恐怕比妳認識的異性還多吧,真令人哭笑不得)
她馬上意識到自己講錯話了,改口說:喔,對哦......
從此我就疏遠她,離開那個單位之後也不連絡
非自願單身也有讓人相處舒服的,但是畢竟是少數
大多數非自願單身大多還有嚮往,因此也很難有共同的話題,特別扯到這方面容易衝突
比方說:
(非):我生日都不記得哦,也沒有送禮物,他生日我都oooooo
(我):......
我實在不想講下去,因為再講下去應該會衝突,而且我覺得這話題沒營養又浪費時間
我會覺得,既然妳不能接受,就分手,換個會記得妳生日的男友
妳跟我講這有用嗎?感情就是一個願打,一個願挨,他就是不記得妳生日
如果妳沒辦法讓他記得住,那就是換對象而已,我有需要聽妳講這些碎碎念嗎?
久了,此類人我就會遠離
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