Re: [討論] 男人怕結婚
備註:痛苦指數★(滿分5顆星)
┌──┬────────────┬──────────────┐
│ │ 男方立場 │ 女方立場 │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│車 │男方買 │女方買 │
│ │鄉民:理所當然 │鄉民:好女人,不娶嗎? │
│ ├────────────┼──────────────┤
│ │★★★ │☆ │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│房 │男方買 │女方買 │
│ │鄉民:天經地義 │鄉民:原PO塊陶阿 │
│ ├────────────┼──────────────┤
│ │★★★★★ │☆ │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│月薪│45K/鄉民:你拿啥養妻小? │45K/鄉民:經濟獨立,給推~ │
│ ├────────────┼──────────────┤
│ │★★★ │★ │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│存款│100W/鄉民:辦場婚禮就沒了│100W/鄉民:持家好女人! │
│ ├────────────┼──────────────┤
│ │★★★ │★ │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│家庭│與岳家同住/鄉民:英奎逆?│與婆家同住/鄉民:孝道外包? │
│ ├────────────┼──────────────┤
│ │☆ │★★★ │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│生產│負擔醫療、月子費 │負擔醫療、月子費 │
│ │鄉民:老婆生產很辛苦的! │鄉民:爛男人~快離一離啦 │
│ ├────────────┼──────────────┤
│ │★★ │☆ │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│生活│全額負擔生活費、教養費 │負擔部分生活費、教養費 │
│費及│鄉民:每月8萬1公道價 │鄉民: 偉大!小孩又沒跟妳姓~ │
│子女├────────────┼──────────────┤
│教養│★★★ │☆ │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│家事│分攤部分家事 │負擔全部家事 │
│ │鄉民:新好男人! │鄉民:老公吃人夠夠! │
│ ├────────────┼──────────────┤
│ │☆ │★★★ │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│下廚│老公掌廚 │老婆掌廚 │
│ │鄉民:當原PO老婆真命好~ │鄉民:要抓住男人的心先抓住男│
│ │ │ 人的胃~加油 │
│ ├────────────┼──────────────┤
│ │☆ │★★★ │
├──┼────────────┼──────────────┤
│積分│20.5 ★ 完勝 │13★ │
└──┴────────────┴──────────────┘
結論:傳統男人結婚面對的壓力確實比女生重
在沒有徹底實施「享受幾分權力,即負擔幾分義務」的真正平等前
男人畏婚,情有可原。
建議:女友想婚,請承諾「我願意跟你負擔相同的責任與義務,
房貸.車貸.生產費.生活費.子女教養費用我們均分。」
男友想婚,請承諾「我願意跟妳負擔相同的責任與義務,
家事廚事婆家鳥事我們一起承擔。」
祝 有 情 人 終 成 眷 屬
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